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>> Born and raised in Brooklyn, NY but now residing in Pennsylvania

>> 22 years of age and in college. Graduated with an Associate's Degree in Medical Administration, now working with a laboratory as a jack of all trades customer service rep, hoping to pursue a higher degree in the healthcare field.

>> Taken since 11.25.07

>> Have been on this site since I was in 7th grade. You do the math lol

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16/f.
i was sick of the "you're fat" innuendos i was getting in my sophomore year..even though i knew i wasn't. i was just thick. and i was sick of people always putting me down and me taking it because of my low confidence (which is probably why they pecked at me in the first place..). i was a pretty good looking girl..with the exception of acne. really bad acne that had to have a last resort treatment. i didn't really take good care of my braces..didn't wear my elastics..late in my treatment. and now that it's summer, i plan to change all this. i'm working REALLY hard everyday. i'm very determined to lose weight, to clear my acne (which will clear itself from the meds), to boost my confidence. but as i'm doing all this..i notice this certain notion of competition in my head..i wanna be better than all my "girl"friends. i mean, i like them all..but i wanna be better than them, and i know that i can be. but i don't want this sudden determination to manifest into TOO much confidence...would you think this is way too ambitious?

well im glad you want to lose weight and better yourself.. as long as youre happy and not hurting anyone, it's all good. but thats the thing, this wanting to be better than your girl friends can push them away... have they ever tried to imply that you were inferior to them? you shouldnt stoop down to that level if so... work hard for YOU...becaseu YOU want to look nice (which im ure you already do) and because YOU feel its in your benefit.. Happiness is the key =]
as far as the wanting to be better...dont make it seem that way because you can REALLY push awayy friends like that, and they may become against you.. if theyre good friends, dont do that to them.. go0d luck!!!

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(Rating: 5) thanks :] some are good friends, the others aren't. most of them are out to make me jealous constantly thoughh. but thank you ^_^!

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