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Ok im 17/f .. Im about to be 18 in august and im like really wanting to have a baby..like REALLLY REALLLLY BAD..and im on birth control would it be wrong if I stopped taking my birth control without my boyfriend knowing just to get pregnant?..we want a baby just not now maybe in 5 years he said. But I want one now... (link)
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if your really loved your boyfriend you would respect what he wants also and not be so selfish. why would you ever do that. and his decision is obviously the best decision because even though it might seem like you want a baby now, you will NOT want a baby this young. why do you want a baby so bad? whatever need or feeling you think it will fulfill it won't, i'm not saying you won't love it, but since you are so young and not married you probably won't be able to do everything you need for it and the baby's life will be messed up. do you have your own solid job? your own house? enough income for 3 people to live well? do you plan on never getting anymore education? do you want to never be able to go out with your friends or do anything fun again? if you answered no to these questions (which any normal person your age would) then you are NOT ready and should NOT have a baby.
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Thanx dat really gave me a reality check...
I waznt even thinkn bout all that I was just focused on the baby part but thanx =) u helped a lot.
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