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Q: okay so I like this guy I'm 15/f and ill be 16 in october he just turned 20 june and I realllyy like him I'm pretty sure he likes me but I'm not positive but we have been talking a lot lately and I have sent him pictures of me but I'm fully clothed. we have talked about doing stuff and we are going to hangout. I am a virgin and I want to loose it to him I'm pretty sure he will take it. anyway is that considered statitory rape if I'm 16? I really like him and he likes me he said he wouldn't date me until I'm 18 because he cares about me and we don't want to get introuble I want to be withhim bad but do you also think he's using me? thank you for reading and thank you for responding
To answer your first question depending on the state you live in it wouldnt be rape.
But hun my heart goes out to you.
Please dont have sex with him.
He's using you.
I know you dont want to hear this.
I know you want to believe that he really cares about you and likes you alot but thats not true.
Wanna know how I know?
Well because last year at the end of school I met this guy and he had just graduated. I was 14.
We exchanged numbers and started talking.
Then one night he was like we should hangout and me being young and stupid agreed.
From then on until 6/13/07 we hungout and talked.
Then on 6/13 we had sex.
we continued to have sex until 10/30/07
Then his bi polarness came out and he got really mad and screamed at me the next day.
From then on we stopped talking and now recently we kinda randomly talk.
&& since I had sex with him I have lots of feelings for him.
I still want to be with him.
I never thought I would be like this last year; I told myself I wouldnt be attached.
But you really do become attached..
Im sorry sweetie.
But please talk my advice and save your heart.


thank you its going to be hard but ill try to let go

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nicoledanielle
Hii. My name is Nicole Danielle.
I have a fucked up life.
I have been through alot and I hope I can help you with any of your problems because I have probably been through them also. If you have any questions/comments let me know. :D
I dont want too get to personal because I tend to do that too quickly.

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