Gender: Female
Location: oklahoma
Age: 21
Member Since: June 20, 2008
Answers: 52
Last Update: June 22, 2008
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17/f
To begin, I don`t need a boyfriend - most times I don`t even want one. However, sometimes there`s just those summer nights when I`m sitting down at the beach when I wish I had someone to share it with. I think I`d make an awesome girlfriend if I had the chance.
I have five guys (that I know of) who say they like me. I rarely talk to them, but all of a sudden they`re all wanting to get to know me. Out of the mix, there is one guy who is someone that I`d potentially like to get to know.
Here`s the catch. I like a guy who I`ve ever only spoken to once.. on facebook. I know, right? Ridiculous. He went to my school for eight months but never got to know anyone other than his sports teammates. Now he is living quite far away again. I always tried to get his attention, but he is going to be a professional sports player so I figured a ton of girls would be after him. He`s smart, athletic, & good looking. Once I caught him reading shakespeare under the table in science when I walked past his class. I`m serious! He seems so interesting.
Anyways, he doesn`t come back for another two months (he only lives here during the sports season). I`d really like to have someone to go to the beach with me now, but I don`t think I could commit myself to anyone while knowing the sports guy is coming back.
Do I just live another two months of my life as I have for years? I`m perfectly fine without anyone, but wouldn`t that just add to the excitement of summer if I had someone? I`m not entirely sure if I`d ever have anything happen with the sports guy. Most people would say he`s too impossibly perfect, but I like a challenge. Like I said, I`d make a great girlfriend, I think.
Sorry for the length of this question, but I thought some background would help to clarify the situation. What might you do if you were in my situation? Thanks so much, your help is greatly appreciated! (link)
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date non-exclusively, and then when you and a guy are ready to commit you move it up a notch. if that still feels like more than you want to deal with, grab a group of friends and have a beach bbq...or wherever the allocated bbq pit closest to the beach is. that way you can still hang with whichever guy(s) you want.
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