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tonight my girlfriend is sleeping over and I am scared to try new things with her.
Where only 16 and it's weird to think but I really know I like her. Also she is one of my bestfriends
if not the best. I guess what i am trying to ask is
how should I approach her with telling her how much a want to do more things and also why do girls get really offended when you try randomly grabbing their boobs?

I too am going to answer the last question first - because it's their boobs, and if they wish for them to be touched, caressed (NOT GRABBED AS THAT HURTS!), they will let you know and invite you on their timing and not your timing. You are 16, boys grabbed boobs as children, you are a young man, so step your game up a lil' bit.

If you really like her, that's cool, nothing is wrong with liking your girlfriend and her liking you, however the whole sleeping over thing, really shocks me. Hell, I never slept over my boyfriend's house until I was grown and out of my mom's house. I may have been over there doing things I shouldn't have been doing, but sleeping over was out of the question on my parent's behalf and my boyfriends' parents behalf too at that age. Wow..

Yes, you should approach her by telling your interests, and finding out hers and seeing if she is cool with trying these things first. I applaud your maturity from that aspect of it.

Good luck, have fun and be careful-safe most of all.

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(Rating: 5) our parents think that were just friends and know her very well so it's just a weird situation.
she has to lie to her parents.

thank you though. =]
it helped
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