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I sort of have a few questions in one here.
So i'm 17 years old, female, and i'm graduating high school next week. (i'm a young senior) Firstly, a ton of my friends drink, and i don't, so i haven't been hanging out with them lately, which is sad. Now my little brother (going to be a junior in hs next year) wants to start drinking. What do i do? I feel like i'm losing my friends and my brother because i'm not comfortable partying with them.
Also, This boy i liked forever is back from college for the summer and i want something to happen but i'm afaid of ruining a friendship. He told me recently he liked me back when i liked him two years ago... and now he's single again. We go for walks, watch movies together, and talk all the time. He always says the right things. I was really upset the other day, and was basically freaking out. And after a while i was like well, you probably want to get back to what you were doing or whatever. And this was his response:
him: hey hey hey
him: don't think you are ever inconveniencing me if you have to come to me with a problem
him: it's what i'm here for
him: whenever you need help dealing with something let me know
him: i don't care what i'm doing
him: i'm glad you feel you can talk to me when there is a problem
me: thanks. i really appreciate that.
him: try to relax and get some sleep
And i felt so much better. So how can i keep this bond we've got but make it something more? And is it worth it? We'll both be in college come september, on other ends of the country. (boston for him, savannah, GA for me.) I'm worried about starting something before college. oh and he isn't over his ex. that may pose a problem.
my last point. How do you meet the right guy? i got lucky with the boy i was talking about above, but when i get to school, how do i met new people, make new friends? I've wanted a boyfriend for some time now... but i want it to mean something.
i'm just so clueless.
Help?
Thanks.
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your not clueless... just a little confused, its okay!
... first off, you should not feel bad just because you don't drink. there are a lot of people who choose to do the right thing and not drink! but that doesnt mean you cant still hang out with them, and you shouldnt feel like your losing them. unless drinking is their only priority then I am sure things will work out between you and your friends.
...this guy seems like one of the few guys who are really worth the long distance. I am not a firm beleiver that long distance works but if you two really care about each other then there is no reason why you can't start something before you all go to college. but you have to make sure that he likes you and he is just using you as a rebound after his ex. from what you have said though, he seems like a really great guy... you bare very lucky! so just tell him that you really really care for him and you'd like to try being together if he is ready.
...as for meeting new poeple and the right guy. you have to be open to anything. if you go into college looking for a certain type of guy with certain characteristics chances are you won't find him. if you go into it with an open mind and you are friendly to everyone... and i mean EVERYONE... chances are you are going to find people that you really like.
Good luck with everything :) inbox me if you need anything else!
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Thanks :] That bit about not looking for a certain type of guy really stuck me. Here i've been looking for this image of the perfect boy i've constructed in my head, when ultimately, the right guy for me may not be like that. I needed to hear that! thanks!
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