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so in the 6th grade i had got with this guy name well lets call him "dude" well me and dude were on and off untill 8th grade when he had got this new girl friend name well "chick"
well i became very jealous to the fact that I fell in love with him and he dumped me for her..well alot of drama had got started cause he would still call me when he was with her
well me and dude finally stopped talking and I both moved schools...now sometime passed by and dude called me from a private number and we began to talk and then like 2 weeks later he told me to stop calling him so I did now its been a whole year and we are at the end of our 9th grade year and dude calls me again and we begin to talk and told him not to talk to me and then decide to stop calling me and he said okay but the only reason why I did it in the first place is because I was with chick...and I was like okay whatever..we had been talking for like a month or 2 now and decided to see each other again well we planned on going to the movied together but 3 days before we were suppose to go i found out from his myspace profile that he was back with chick and i didnt care at the time so I messed around with him at the theater and then we went back to his place and did alot of sexuall things..I gave him head he rubbed me down there suck on my boobs and I didnt have underwear on just for you to know IDK if that is a turnoff for him or not...well now he hasnt called me since then and dosent say much on the 5 messages he has sent me on myspace..I tried to add his brother as a friend but he wouldnt say yes or no neither would his brothers girl friend IDK what to do I really love him and Im so confussed and plus he is having a birthday party and I wasnt invited maybe because of the fact that I dont get along with his friends but PlEASE help what do you think is going on with us I have way to much pride to ask him and well please help me (link)
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something like this happeend to me, so i found it interesting and kept reading your problem. i was madly in love with this guy and he kept saying that he loved mme. this happened when i was in the 6th grade we went out on and off until sophmore year which is now and i found out he had a gf and he lied about it while we were still messing around and we stopped talking but i still really love him and cant stand the distance. now with me telling you this what advice would you give me? would you tell me to keep trying harder like to get with him again? but he hurts me everytime we get together, or would you say to get over him hes a jerk..what makes more sense. whatever you would answer to me you should answer to yourself.
its a matter of knowing what you really want. you cant love a guy like this. it has to be a 2 way street. eevrytime you get near this guy he pushes you away and it ends bad and then somehow again you guys start talking to eachother. is that the way you want to be? you have to think. you keep getting hurt everytime you talk to him. end it now the sooner the better. i once posted a question like this and they answered saying "right now it seems like the end of the world becuase you have to get over him and you think you wont but you will, trust me" and at that time i thought i wont. but evryday i get over him a little more and its getting better, and guess what im better now and you will be too. there are aLOT OF HOTTER AND NICER GUYS OUT THERE youre worth more than this. trust me you will get over it and sometimes you just have to think "whats best for me>"? being with him or without him. you know the answer to that question more than anyone else here. you will be better its not the end of the world trust me. =]
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Im know I should let go but it hurts...
and well Im just going to go on with my life and one day he will see what he let go of and that day I will be far gone so I think im done with him but I know if he calls me I will talk to him thats the bad part
I want him to chase after me but I dont want him to think he can have me whenever he wants..
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