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My dearest friend is unhappy with her love life. But she's been with this guy for about 3 and a half years. She's about 18 now. All they do is fight and make one another miserable. She says she would be miserable with out him but other days she said she's scared to be alone and thats why she stays with him. I wouldn't say it's much of a relationship due to how they treat each other.

In the past I have tried my best to tell her she needs someone better. I've even gone as far as verbally attacking her boyfriend and telling him to get out of her life. I'm worried about her and it makes me sick to see her so unhappy. Lately I've been just sitting by her side and listening to her. She says thats all she wants and appreciates it from me. I try my best to support her and be honest when she asks something of me. But I want to tell her to move on from her boyfriend and find someone new or take some time for herself. Like she knows reality of how everything is.. But Idk...

Have I done the right thing by no longer meddling and being by her side instead if she needs me? Or should I take action again?

Yes, you have done the right thing by not meddling and being there when she wants and needs you to be.

I am sorry that she is in the situation that she is in. I am very hopeful that she comes to reality of why she isn't happy and does something aobut it but you can't force or rush her. Continue being there for her as you have been.

What a great friend you are.

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