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My name is Angel, and I love helping people. I'm anything but perfect, and I don't expect anyone else to be. I don't judge, and I don't try to make peoples choices for them. I simply try to help in the best way I can. I've been through some very good, and very bad times in my life. They have sculpted me into the beautiful mess you see before you today.
I'm here for anyone who needs anything I have to offer, so don't be afraid to ask, or vent. Whichever will help.
Gender: Female
Location: Georgia
Age: 19
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I find myself constantly trying to be happy instead of just being happy. Everytime I do feel a sense of happiness and accomplishment, I let the following small bad thing bring me down.

Apparently, I'm not clinically depressed, or bipolar (I checked), so I'm just wondering, are there tips to meditate or let go, or just exercises to basically help me feel as confident as I was as a younger person?

Seriously, I'm open to anything at this point. (link)
Everyone goes through moments of depression...it's what keeps us grounded, and more importantly it keeps us striving for more.
The best thing you can do for yourself is find time to live life one day at a time. That's what children do, and that's what you need. Try new things for no good reason.
Have you tried anything new, stupid, crazy, or odd lately? Maybe Skating, singing, painting, soccer, dancing, or kickboxing. You should! Change keeps us guessing, laughing, and young.
Stop trying to make yourself happy, and just be happy!
There is no magical answer to happiness, but there is a simple solution. You just got to live for yourself and the things you love!


Rating: 4
I'd love to try something new, but I'm getting to this point where I just can't anymore. Especially because my girl is expecting me to be more... matrimonial material now.
Still, I'll try to just live for each day. Maybe not let her future plans get me down.




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