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I'm that person that everyone calls or e-mails when they need advice. It doesn't matter the subject, they contact me. I don't give you the answer you want to hear and most of my advice is not your mother's advice, if you want your mom's advice--Go ask your mom or mother figure. If you ask a question you will always get an honest answer--note: I did not say the answer you want-- I said an honest answer. If you ask me something I have to research to answer, I will research it and provide you with the source if you ask.
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Ok, I am 13 years old and I have a problem:
My Best Friend is a JERK!!! At least I think.
My best friend is a guy. We get teased a LOT about it, but whatever. He WAS dating this girl named Destiny. She's in 8th grade (we're in 7th.) She's a little bit of a slut, but I didn't say anything, even though I secretly have a crush on Koby, but whatever... The point is his OTHER best girl friend, Katie, and I saw Destiny dirty dancing and holding hands with a guy OTHER THAN KOBY!!! I was pissed, as you can imagine. Katie was too, so she texted Koby and was like,"Destiny's with another guy." And we took a pic of them holding hands. Koby texted her back,"How am I suppose to believe you? Are you tired of waiting for me to break up with her so you can have me?" Is he a jerk or should I forgive him?
Sounds like your friend is a tad bit cocky. Granted it's not always best to listen to someone else when they tell you that they person they are with is cheating but if you had a picture that showed their faces he should have believed you.
It also sounds like he thinks that if he crooked his finger you and/or Katie would come running. Let me tell you now---NO BOY is worth that. If he didn't believe you that means he doesn't trust you as his friend and wouldn't trust you as his girlfriend.
I wouldn't let his response bother me but I also wouldn't forgive his attitude towards someone he supposedly considers a friend. Sounds as if you should move onto crushing on another boy.
(Rating: 5) Thank you! I understand no boy is worth that. And yes he IS cocky. Thanks XD Much appreciated.