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Hey my name is Brigit im 16 years old i love being on my phone cause i have mobile internet everywhere i go with my boyfriend friends anywhere this phone is with me dude lol im hispanic born an raised in houston texas im in the tenth grade going to 11th grade any questions holla at me an please answer mine
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E-mail: Brigit_loves_u@mocospace.com
Gender: Female
Location: houston Texas whoo
Occupation: Being me
Age: 16
Member Since: June 1, 2008
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Last Update: October 15, 2008
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This probably sounds quite silly but heres the situation: I've already got one big group of friends that I hang with on weekends and in the summer and in some of my classes and all that. But theres this other group of kids that I would really like to like be a part of. I'm really good friends with some of the girls in it, like I've been friends with them since elementary school- in fact, we were best friends in elementary school. They're a totally different "style" if you understand what I'm saying. Like my current social group is like this random, really eclectic mix of kids who just want to be silly and have fun, and this one is more artsy, musical, intelligent, and creative. I would really fit into this group and would really like to be a part.

Well the problem is, I hang out with the second group all the time at school, but I never get invited when they hang out outside of school. I know they hang out all the time because they all put pictures on facebook and talk about it and stuff. Don't get me wrong, I get in sometimes, when its like a huge group that encompasses like "everybody", but when its like the core of the group I'm not in it. I'm not sure I'm explaining it well... It's not like they're selective, I'm just not in their little social circle. I try to plan events and invite the people that I do know well and encourage them to bring others, but I suspect they think I don't know them that well, but I do, becuase im in the school band with them, where everybody knows everybody well. So basicly my question is, how can I become like a "regular" in their social circle?

oh, and don't get me wrong- I'm not trying to leave my current friends- I'm just trying to make some new friends because I'm attracted to their style, their political/activist oppinions, and frankly, their more intuectual behavior. and also, as as with most 16-yr girls' actions, there is a boy involved... who i would definately like to get to know better! (link)
Hey girl dis jennifer 16yrs 2 ha but umm just be like hey what yall gonna do this day or later you know an say how mean I'm not invited an get more closer to all the people who mainly hang out 2gether an talk 2 the guy haha


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