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I'm a vegan. I like glam rock and androgynous males. I have two cats. they're mystical beings. I'm going to college in less than a month.
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ok the thing is a friend of mine might be bi. but the thing is, would she act any different if she is? i mean i havent known her for long, and i dont know if she acted differently b4. but a friend of hers and mine as well(she known her 3 years ago) told me she acted different this year. im worried, does it make a difference if a persons not straight? one of my friends told me she had a bi friend and dat she isnt different. well the thing is i dont noe any bi or gay or lesbian people so i dont know. i need advice! please! thank you.
I'm a bisexual woman.
my short answer? at the root of everything, no, she won't be any different.
she may, after being out to herself or others, take up a crusade of sorts against a world unaccepting of her. she may talk often about how she feels between the homosexual world and the straight world. she might get angry that no one will take her seriously. in that regard she may be different.
however, if you're her friend, you will likely stay her friend even through these annoying transition periods where all a person like me wants to do is scream that they're no different than anyone else. I hope you will. I hope you'll listen to her genuinely talk about why she likes someone male or female and not push out the conversations about women because she probably doesn't have anyone to talk to besides her straight friends about when she gets a crush or a new love. if it helps, push gender aside in these times and just see your friend as being excited about someone, not some man or some woman. there's a good chance that she doesn't even think of them in terms of gender.
in the end, though, all love is some sort of love and I hope you'll come to accept that in your friend, that she has an overwhelming desire to love the ones she does love, not just the men she loves.
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