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Lately, my girlfriend and I keep fighting. I get the distinct feeling that all her comments like I don't take anything seriously (which I only seem to because she takes everything seriously, and I thought that was something about our relationship balance, I'm mellow and she's rigid).
We had a fight about names for kids (which I think shouldn't have been a fight since we haven't done to make children a factor in our lives). She thinks I never compromise anything while she has to give everything up.
Near as I can tell, I've compromised on more stuff like her. I freaking skipped out on a family member's birthday to help her find her wallet. I'm still making up for that in the eyes of my parents.
I'm a patient guy. I try to be understanding. But I need to know if all these stupid fights are a sign that she doesn't want to be with me anymore, even subconsciously.
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So... let's address this in what I find interesting order.
Ya'll fought about the names of children you do not have? Do you think that's because she wants them and doesn't know how you'd feel about the idea? I know I did that to my man when I wanted kids. Why we always think that subtle hints will work I don't know, but maybe you should look into that.
So, she's uptight, you're not, and you want to know what the fighting means? It means that she's uptight and you're not. Contrary to popular belief, two complete opposites rarely get anywhere in a relationship. It's a psychological proven fact.
Maybe she loves you, and you her, but that doesn't always mean a happily ever after... sadly.
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Rating: 3
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Thanks for being honest.
And, I happen to want kids one day. I just don't think it's time to talk about it when we aren't having any soon.
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