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16/f
my boyfriend has trouble trusting me. he says he trusts me but i know he doesn't. he freaks out anytime i even talk to another guy. i used to have so many guy friends now i don't anymore. i love my boyfriend to death and will not breakup with him i just need your help with a way to make things better.

this happens a lot about different things but i'll tell you what is going on now. he is constantly scared that if i talk to another guy i'll like him. my boyfriend is always asking me who i talk to in my gym class (meaning guys). i hardly talk to any of the guys, mostly just the girls. i told him that and he was like give me all of the names of the people you've had conversations with. and he started freaking out. then i told him that there is no way i could ever remember that and i'm crying so much and he thinks i'm hiding something. he always thinks i talk to guys behind his back.

like he always looks at my phone at my texts and calls. i know he just loves me so much and never wants to lose me but idk what to do to make all of this stop and just have him trust me!

thanks so much!

Hi,

Trust is the key in any relationship, Without it you have no relationship. It seems to be that maybe he has a problem trusting himself. Alot of times people become hyer vigilant when they have done something wrong. They will accuse there partner of doing somthing because they have broken that trust and now feel as if there isnt any trust at all. He may however just be the jealous type. In that case, since you arent willing to say goodbye work with him. Willingly let him see your texts and even write down the names of people you talk to throughout the day. Eventuallly he will begin to trust you. He will relize that if you had something to hide you wouldnt be so open. Also you can try and trust him more so that he knows that there can be trust in a relationship.
I hope that it helps.

Best of Luck

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(Rating: 5) thanks! i do let him willingly read texts and everything but if i even have one text from a guy he gets so jealous and thinks i like them!
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