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My family can be really critical, but what they think will always matter to me, as well as my friends. So i just need some opinions from everyone.

Im on track to become a Nurse. but im about three years away from being totally done with it.. I really want to start a family.. i want to be able to have enough energy to have fun with my family. I love kids, i work with kids, but im worried that people might think im too young still. My family atleast tends to think that 35 is the perfect age to have children. So..

My question is: what is the RIGHT age for people to start a family? (assume they would be married)


Thank you so much. sorry if its in the wrong category

No one can really say what the 'right' age is for someone to start a family. They may see thirty-five as the right age, while people in older times saw fourteen and fifteen as a suitable age to have children/get married.
It's only an opinion, but thirty-five may even be a little late, depending on when you'd be going through menopause, etc.
Only you can really determine when you're ready and willing to have children. Your family will probably support you in your decisions you make, and if not, well, they should.
What I'd reccomend is finishing up your schooling, and finding a job in becoming a Nurse. Once you've got a stable job, that's when I'd reccomend trying to have children.
But, like I said, it's all up to you! If you think you'd be able to handle a baby at the point you're at now, feel free! Just make sure you think you'll be able to handle everything that comes along with a family.

Good luck (:

XOXO
KAT.

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(Rating: 5) i was still asking YOUR opinion..on an actual AGE.
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