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17/f. I really really like a guy at school who is in one of my classes. I've never talked to him before and I don't know him but I really like him :S

It's so bad because I feel really uncomfortable around him and I am really shy and everything. The worst thing is anytime the teacher asks me a question or I have to say something in class I get totally embarrassed and I'm pretty sure I go completely red and I am so embarrassed and I absolutely hate it, this has never happened to me before and I don't know what to do.

Help?

Talk to him
Whether it be in person or in a note, talk to him.
Get to know him better, become his friend. That way you know if he is even dating material. If you are too shy to talk to him by yourself have one of your friends introduce you to him.
If its meant to be everything will work out.

Good Luck

What to say:
I would reccomend taking the same approach you did with your friends at school. You can start off Hi and let your conversation grow from there. If a friend is there they can help kick off the conversation. Start off simple though, dont come on too strong too soon. Perhaps try complimenting him in some discreet whether it be his hair or his shoes he will appreciate it. Plus it can be a conversation starter. =]
The first conversation is always the hardest but once you get over that first greeting awkwardness evrything will only get easier.
Whatever you do don't be afraid to show who you really are. The most successful relationships are the ones who are the most honest.
I hope this helps.

Best Of Luck


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