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why would a boy get all flustered when you started talking to him again? My ex boyfriend and i used to be amazing friends and broke up a little over a month ago. i have been trying to talk to him for a while but then we just stopped. im moving in 2 weeks so today when i saw him i asked him if he would be at youth group next week. he got all flustered and was like "well i dont know what im doing, maybe." and i was like "ok well do you think you will?" and he was like i dont know what im doing!!" and then i said "ok, well you dont have to yell. i just wanted to say bye" he does that everytime i ask him something like before it was if we could hangout and he would be like "IDK IM BUSY and i have stuff to do" why does he do this? neever before when we were dating would he do this just since we broke up. thank you so much!! :) ned an answer ASAP because im seeing him tonight--thanx

It would depend on who broke up with whom, and what happened in the break up, really. Here's some situations:
If you broke up with him, he may possibly be a little upset with you. Have ya'll talked everything over? If not, try to. Let him know that you still want to be friends, and you meant no harm.
If he broke up with you, let him know that you're okay, and that you'd like things to go back to normal.
Sometimes it's difficult to go back to the way things are bfore breakups, especially if you were very good frieds beforehand. Let him know, regardless as to what the breakup was over or how it happened, that you'd still like to be friends and possibly go back to normal. Try to talk to him in person so he can't just ignore you, either. This will get the message through, and give you both a chance to say how you feel. Communication is key!

XOXO
KAT.

Best of luck, tonight!

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