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I have this guy friend I really like! We have so much in common and we get along great but I told him I am currently in a relationship that I am trying to get out of. I just wanted to be friends for now and maybe in the future we could possibly become more but he calls me everyday at least 10 times maybe more! and he is extremely pushy..trying to get me to say "I love you" by saying "I know you love me!" "You know you want to say it" etc.. and I feel highly uncomfortable and I've told him before but he seems to keep on pressuring me and I don't want to block his number or tell him to go away because I could be missing out on something for the future and he is VERY Stubborn and he continues to keep asking me all kinds of personal questions including "marriage, kids etc"
What should I do?! I'm going crazy!
-BahaiMa22 (link)
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This is an age old problem, is the grass greener on the other side. Your problem is that your being too nice.
Are you really wanting to end things with your boyfriend? If so, get to it. The longer you take the harder it's going to be on the both of you! The right thing to do is be honest and up front with your boyfriend. If he's not the one for your, then you can't be the one for him.
This friend of yours isn't acting to much like a friend or a lover right now. It sounds to me like he's trying to control you. You need to be firm with this guy. Tell him that if he really cared about you he'd give you a little space to work things out.
It sounds to me like your more interested in the idea of this guy than the real thing. Do you like the constant calling, and the being pushed into things your not ready for? If you don't like what he's doing now, do you really think things are going to change if ya'll get together?
Don't be so quick to worry about what might be before you take a good look at what is!
Put some distance between the two of you, and don't worry about him not coming back. If he really loves you, he'll be patient. If he doesn't then he'll run.
True love knows no pride, test him.
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Rating: 5
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You are right, I think it's time to be straight foward and I think I am going to do just as you said.
Thank you so much
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