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your a guy right? well ha duh your a guy...but okay
well i have a few questions.
1) i heard that guys like when girls will try to take them from their current girlfriends..true or false?
2)what kind of attitude do boys like? What do you guys look for in a girl? because most of the time they go for the short skirts and stick size girls...
3)how do you turn a guy on without giving him the idea that you want to go any further than kissing??
19/f if it helps??! i know i should have more experience but i was on a really REALLY tight chain when i was young... (link)
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Yes, I'm a guy. Now, onto the questions:
1) Unless a guy is a complete and utter horrible person who just loves himself, no guy wants another girl to try and take him from their current girlfriend. Even if we as a gender are turned on by females beyond the ones we date, no decent guy wants the drama, stress, and more-than-likely heartache that a girl trying to take them from their current girlfriend.
2) I can't speak for other guys. I can only speak for myself. And honestly, I look them in the eyes. If a girl truly is someone I could connect with, I'll see it in her eyes. Her honesty, her humor, her insecurities, her confidences. I've fallen for different kinds of women, some shy and reserved, and some outgoing and fun-loving. Fashion and size means little to me, although I like a woman in proper proportion. Meaning, if she looks natural to be big, or small, it works for me.
3) Sadly, not a lot of guys are like me, who would be cool with that. But a hand through the hair or lightly tracing the fingers along the neck works often.
And don't worry about age and experience. People should only do things when they are ready. I got my first kiss at your age, because I waited for the right one.
I hope this helps you out.
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