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My name is Jillian and if you've got a question, I'll answer it the best I can.
Gender: Female
Occupation: Student
Age: 16
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I need an honest viewpoint on this.

Lets say you're a 16 year old girl and you broke up with your 16 year old boyfriend (which is my case). You broke up with him because he's been giving you really obvious hints that he didn't wanna be together anymore. He even said so one time. After a week of breaking up, he sends you a text saying something like: "You're contagious because I cried for no reason last night"
and all of a sudden, you start seeing your ex boyfriend depressed. (he never was before...in fact, he was happy). He tries to flirt with you more... He doesn't eat at lunch...he feels really sad and crappy. He doesnt flirt with girls like he usually did to try and make you jealous. He just sits in your table at lunch and sulks.
If this was your case, do you think he's depressed over the break up?
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you know what, i think he likes to have you under his control. i have a friend like that who i've liked for a while and he knows it. whenever i realize hes an asshole and i dont talk to him as much, he starts telling me he cries and he starts like complimenting me and saying im great.
but when i hang out with him and like him and everything, he treats me like crap.

so to sum it up, some guys like control over a gurl's feelings just because it boosts them up. this could be your case.


Rating: 5
yeah, it could be. good point. thanks




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