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I'm just your average 24 year old girl as far as looks can see. I know that I seem young, and let's be honest..I am. However, I've been through a lot of things in my life. Things at one point I thought would ruin my life...but guess what =) I'm still here. I've survived it all and now I want to help others do the same! And it wouldn't hurt for me to meet a few more people too!
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Me and my ex boyfriend were dating for like 5 months. he's the first guy i really ever fell in love with and i was so open towards him. also he was the first guy that i had ever done sexual stuff with. we never actually had sex but we talked about it all the time, never got the chance. but we did other stuff. Well ever since we broke up i have been so depressed and down in the dumps. i want him back so bad.
He broke up with me because he thought that i was cheating on him. which i definitaly WAS NOT. But a day or two after he decided it was over, he called me and we talked. he said that he was so stupid for breaking up with me and hurting me again. (we had broken up a few times before.) he said that he missed me so much and he's never really cried in his life but the thought of losing me made tears swell up in his eyes. he was devistated. i was as well. I never wanted to lose him, not again.
I am still in love with him, and it's been more that a month since we split. i want him to hold me again. i want to feel his sweet touch. his warm kisses and loving hugs. is there any way at all that i could possibly get him back? ANY advice would help. thanks. :)
Well first off, according to your second paragraph he wants you back also. Now you have to think..this is not the first time he has left you. Are you willing to go through that again? Take a step back and look at everything that has happened so far while you all were together. I know that it's easier said than done, but I honestly think that you should move on with your life, and without him. I'm afraid that the way he keeps breaking up with you and getting back together is his way of "keeping you close". His way of making sure that he knows he can have you when he wants, and in addition he can leave to do his thing and you will wait for him. If you truly want to get back together I suggest making this the LAST time and make sure he knows it. Tell him straight up that if it doesn't work this time then it's over for good. Honey you can't keep putting yourself through this heartache. I don't even know you and can still say I think that you are worth sooo much more than that. So either way you decide, make it the last, however I strongly suggest telling him he had his chance and blew it. Tell him you plan to move on. If he waits for YOU this time (instead of the other way around) than you know he is serious. If not...your better off without him because he doesn't deserve you. Good luck sweetie, I wish you the best! I hope I was of atleast a little help!
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Thanks so much. i never really thought of it that way. but your advice definatly helps.
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