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16/f
I've been dating my boyfriend for a year now and lately I've been having crazy jealousy issues. I really have no reason to be jealous or suspicious of him because he's never really done anything to make me not trust him (that I know of). See, he's a year older than me, I'm a sophomore and he's a junior, and for half of the day he's at a different school than I am. There's a girl that goes there that also attends our school that I think he talks to. I'm weirdly jealous of this and thinking about her makes me angry. I don't even really know her other than she was in one of my classes. I always have these dreams that he leaves me for her. He denies that he even talks to her, which I know isn't true. Today we were at the store and she was there and she waved to him. It seems pretty harmless, but I got really upset.
I can't stand feeling like this :\ I get really jealous and I know it has to do with my own insecurities. But if he doesn't talk to her, and what he says is true, then this isn't fair for him.
So I suppose my question is, how would I go about getting over this stupid jealousy problem?
please help :[ (link)
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you can never really get over jealously, as long as you love someone you're always going to be a little jealous of the other girls that they talk to. if you two have been dating for a year then you know that he must love you a lot and i doubt that he would lie to you about this girl. you just need to realize that he wouldn't stay with you for a year just to leave you for some girl that he says he doesn't even talk to. you just need to trust him because if you act insecure it might drive him away.
i hope i helped.
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thanks a lot for your answer, it's what i needed to hear and i know it's the truth.
thanks again
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