Member Since: December 4, 2007
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Last Update: May 1, 2008
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hi well this is about me & my boyfriend.. we both have trust issues..but weve been dating 7 months so we trust each other with everything..but im very paranoid bout him going thru my phone..bc, well my parents split up & now my mom & i are dirt poor, & i cant afford my phone. so, im REALLLY not proud of this, but i send this guy..pictures..& he pays my bills. so he text me last night saying "hey sunshine" & my bf saw it..& he kept asking who that text was from & i was drunk so i said idk then i deleted it. & then he saw i deleted it..& now he says he doesnt trust me anymore bc of me not telling him (he doesnt know about the pics..) & i feel so hurt bc he doesnt trust me anymore (but i would feel the same if the roles were reversed) but i dont have any money and i dont consider it cheating bc idk this person, theyre on another coast, & i have NO feelings for him. but it kills me inside whenever i do it & i want to regain my bfs trust but i just dont know what to do..about any of it..please help?? (link)
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Ok first of all, you are old enough to get a job, so do that instead of doing what you are doing now to get the money. It's not safe, and what happens when this guy wants more than just pics. What happens when he wants sex from you? Because obviously he knows stuff about you if he pays your bills. So you have to just tell him your mom can pay now or something like that so he wont get mad. And just think about what you are doing. You can also try contacting your dad, if he is one of the nice parents, maybe he could help you out? I don't know if I made much of a difference but I hope everything goes well.
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ive been looking for a job everywhere and finally found one :) and he doesnt know anything about me, i have virgin mobile, so all he does is text me a code, and i do the rest myself. thanks though!
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