My name is Linda and I'm 16 years old. I consider myself pretty smart and nice (although a little werid) and I'll be glad to answer any questions about anything.
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ok well my bf and i broke up because he doesnt have time for a gf and im moving in a little over a month. its been really painful for me and i dont know what to do. i dont really care about dating him anymore but hes my best friend too and we have been best friends for a while. he knows everything about me but now he doesnt even have time to call me-seriously. he never calls and when he( or i) finally calls he is like im really busy i cant talk now sry we can talk later. i dont know what to do and last sunday he was flirting with me A LOT and we ended up kissing a couple times because we still kinda like each other but its really confusing. the thing that i cant handle is i've never had a friend who didnt even have time to talk to me! we go to different schools and now he never has time to hang out so we barely see each other except at church and youth group. please help me!! he doesnt have time but he means so much to me and i am leaving soon!!! thank you so much and i will rate :) (link)
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My dear friend,
I'm sorry this is so hard for you. The impression I got when reading your message is that your friend is trying to avoid you: maybe he doesn't like you a certain way, or maybe he does and he's afraid of his feelings. The most likely is that since you're moving away, he doesn't want to get too close to you so he'll get hurt.
Send him a text message or a MySpace message, telling him that you want to be friends when you move and ask him when's the best time to call him during the week.
Again, I'm sorry that this is going on but moving away, you can make new beginnings, new friends, and be a totally new and better person.
Hope that helps!
-Linda
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