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I'm just your average 24 year old girl as far as looks can see. I know that I seem young, and let's be honest..I am. However, I've been through a lot of things in my life. Things at one point I thought would ruin my life...but guess what =) I'm still here. I've survived it all and now I want to help others do the same! And it wouldn't hurt for me to meet a few more people too!
If you are looking for someone to say everything that you want to hear, you are probably looking in the wrong direction. You come here to receive advice and I plan to do just that. I will be 100% straight up with you. If you aren't prepared to hear the answer, you might want to think twice about asking the question =)
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Gender: Female
Location: Ohio
Age: 24
Member Since: April 8, 2008
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Last Update: October 7, 2008
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im 16/f, okay so i have a boyfriend who really loves me and i was in love with him but im more in love with his personality than looks. but i know you shouldn't go by looks in a relationship but it helps. we've been going out for 6 months and i recently became friends with this guy i like knew about before i was going out with my boyfriend and hes extremely attractive. he even likes me and ive hung out with him a few times and we have a lot of fun. i know ive been going out with my boyfriend and i would never cheat on him because im not like that but i feel like i want to be able to like flirt with people and explore, but i feel like im not able to with a boyfriend. Like sometimes i love having a boyfriend and sometimes i feel like i wish i didn't have one. but my boyfriend is in love with me and i don't want to break his heart. he got mad at me for hanging out with this other really hot guy who likes me, but i feel like i should be able to hang out with whoever i want. i dont know what i should say to my boyfriend or what i should do. this is a tough situation because i know my boyfriend will be there for me but this hot guy i kind of like but i don't know if he just wants to just get with me, be friends or anything more or less. this other guy seems really nice and likes me and im attracted to him. i dont know what to do, please help me.
Doesn't sound like a very easy situation that you are in. I've been here before, and I made the wrong choice, but we live and learn. My advice to you is to break up with your current boyfriend. I don't think that you should, however, jump into a realtionship with 'guy 2'. It sounds like what you want to enjoy is the single life, and at 16, I think that you are right to do so. Have fun being single.
You are right that a relationship shouldn't be based on looks, but lets be honest here, looks count for something. You have to be physically attracted to the other person on some level.
I think you just need a break to be yourself. You sound like the type of person that likes to go out and have a good time. Explain to your current boyfriend how you feel and tell him that you just need to be by yourself so that you can BE yourself. It may hurt him at first, but in the long run he will appreciate you giving him the chance to find someone who feels the same way about him that he feels about you.
I wish you the best of luck and I'm truly sorry it took me so long to get this message to you. I've been going through a few problems also.
Take care and please please please write me to let me know how things are going. Good luck!
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thank you so much
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