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Hi, this is Kate. I'm 17. My life motto is 'Live Laugh Love', I really think those are great words to live by and I'm planning to have it made into a tattoo. I'm not religious but I love learning about different religions. I write stories based on things that have happened to me because sometimes I have days where I just think 'wow that sounds like something out of a book'. I've finished 3 stories and I'm about to start my first horror story..very exciting. I believe in fairy tale love...the kissing in the rain, staring at the stars on the rooftop kind of love..Why? Because I'm in that kind of love and its been the greatest time of my life. And it didn't come easy.
I'd love to help you with whatever issues come your way. I've been in relationships where the guy was too old for me, the guy was my best friend, the guy just wanted to get some. I've been the other woman but I'm not proud of it. I've been the girl who waits years to be with the guy she wanted.
I come from the type of home where everyone seems okay and then when everyone leaves its chaos. My parents should have been divorced years ago and I can't stand to be around either of them so for now I'm going day by day, only coming home to sleep and counting down the days until I go to college in August.
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i have recently lost my bestfriend and all of my other friends..

i really can't take it anymore, school is torture, getting up in the morning is hell, and just doing things is just miserable..


any advice on what to do?? (link)
i was in your position last year. all my life i had been a really happy person, lots of friends. i used to have parties that had at least 20 people at them and they were all really good friends and then it seemed that over night i lost everything. the stress made me fail two classes and i didn't know what to do. basically what i did was i got a job which distracted my from school and friends because when i was working i didn't have time for friends. plus it brought in money and i made friends with the people i work with. i really feel for you and i know what you're going through sucks. and sucks doesnt even begin to describe it but you have to stick through it because IT WILL PASS and you'll be fine. i'm good now and i have all my friends back. i'm not going to tell you it'll happen overnight because it doesn't. it takes time and you have to keep telling yourself that this depression will pass.

so try getting a job. one that is low-stress and something fun. i work at an ice cream shop so i get to flirt with guys who come in and say "would you like some whipped cream with that?" haha. jobs that involve food are always fun no matter what it is. or you could try getting a summer job at a camp taking care of little kids if you like that sort of thing and you're old enough. little smiling faces who adore you will most likely cheer you up.

keep your head up. you'll be fine.
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modelkate11


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