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im obsessed with my boyfriend v weve been going out for almost 3 years and were only in hs. weve done everything but sex and i am in love. ive tried to picture myself with someone else and i just cant. lately he has been pulling away and idk what to do because im obsessed what do i do to make him obsessed with me again and dont say talk to him because i would be right now but ive tried and he says nothing is wrong. just tell me what to do ill do anything (link)
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Three years is a long time (that's how long my fiance and I have been together).
When a relationship is that old, you can't rely on puppy love and infatuation anymore. It's not like a crush.
Because it's so long, you have to keep yourselves from getting bored. Make some subtle changes or do something cute and sweet for him, like a random surprise or gift, even though it's for no special occasion.
Even though you are obsessed with him, you can't smother him. That'll only drive him away from you, which isn't what you want. He's already pulling away a little bit, so I think that's an indicator that he wants some space. I mean, you've already said that you've tried talking to him, so don't bother him anymore about it.
Like I said, just don't try to be annoying and keep asking him what's wrong (guys hate that), and leave some cute little notes, maybe frame a picture of you two, buy him something he likes, etc.
Do you have an idea of why he might be pulling away? Maybe it's something that doesn't involve you, like family or friend problems. Like I said, don't pry... but if the problem is that he's growing out of you, like moving on, I'm sorry hun but that's something you just can't change. I don't want to frighten you but you can't make someone love you ya know?
Anyways, me and my bf still fight a lot but we always work it out. I'm sure you'll be fine. Good luck!!
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thankyou so much this helped alot-katie
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