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Things are just spriling out of control right now. I had a group of friends but two of them got into a fight, therefore one of them left to go to another group and the other one is now hanging out with just her boyfriend. The others are just there, but i dont feel as comfortable to hang out with them anymore. They are mostly with themselves now. That just leaves me! I don't have a lot of other friends, other then them. I just came to this High School hardly knowing anyone. What i need advice on is how can i make new friends to hang out at lunchtime and stuff? I am not popular at all..and frankly thats what its all about in high school unfortuntely. I feel so lonely and "lower on the social ladder". Its hard and i really need some advice. Any advice is appreciated. Thank you
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I'm a loner in High School too..
Ugh get rid of the idea of a "social ladder".. There's really no ladder; just people who think they're better than others..
Anyway, it is awkward to go up to a group of strangers and just become friends. It doesn't work that way.. I think that friends happen over time. So, just continue what you're doing; be aware of the people in your classes, join in conversations.. Join clubs, do things you're interested in.. Do new things.
Also, you can focus on the people you see everyday but don't really know..
Everyone says this, but "being yourself" is very beneficial- so continue doing it!!
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