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okay so theres this reallyyyyy hot kid whos ive been obsessed about for like ever and now im finally friends with him. one problem, i have a boyfriend and we've been going out for almost 6 months. btw im in 10th and theyre in 11th. umm and i really llike my bf but idk now im kinda feeling like restrained and i cant do anything if you know what i mean, cause this really hot kid thats im now friends with i think likes me. would you rather be with the one you love or the one who loves you? so idk what to dooooo! someone please help me

something that you should NEVER do is dump your boyfriend for someone who you think is better. i mean, if you and your current boyfriend are having problems and are fighting a lot, theres really not much you can do if you no longer feel the need to solve the problems that you may be having.

im assuming you still have feelings for your boyfriend, right? are those feelings not strong enough to stay with him?

my opinion is if this other guy who you have liked for a long time never gave you the time of day before, is he really worth giving up someone who has been in your life longer just because he just now realized that he likes you?

i know what i say will only go so far when it comes to if you want to listen to it or not, but ill give my input anyway and you can take it how youd like to.

if i were you, i wouldnt give up my guy that i love for anyone. love is such a strong emotion and you need to treat it the right way. i would do what my heart tells me to, and in this case i hope your heart tells you not to leave your boyfriend.

there will always be guys who are tempting and will make you think if they are the better boy for you, but in the long run i think you already have it good.

continue staying friends with that other guy though. because you never know, you could get a very good frendship out of him.

good luck with what you decide to do girl.
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