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I have this problem with guys. Like every single time I date a guy and I like them lot and stuff. But I end up breaking up with them in the end. It's like I can't commit to just one guy. I want a long-term relationship but I can't cause I can't commit. Its like when I start getting attached I push him away. How could I commit to just one guy and actually stay with him and not break it up? Any advice or suggestions? Thanks in advance!

that sounds exactly like me. just know that your not the only girl out there who thinks shes not ready to commit.

it could be two reasons:

one may be that the guys your dating just arent the right guys for you, and therefore it will never work out. and im really glad that you arent forcing yourself to stay with one guy just because you want a relationship. never settle for just anyone.

the second reason could be that since your telling yourself that you cant ever commit, its stuck in your head that way. you need to not think about it so much, and just let whats meant to be take its own course.

i guarentee if you just roll with what your feelings may be with a certain guy, it will all go into place.

you will find someone who you are comfortable with to be committed to for an extended period of time. sometimes great things take time, and i think thats the case this time.

so dont worry.
be pacient, dont stress yourself out too much and good luck (:

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