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sorry in advance, because this is long..
okay so on spring break i re-met this guy, will, that i met at the same resort 2 years ago. the last time we had been a little flirty, but that was the extent of it. when i saw him this year, he asked me if i wanted to hang out one night. we hung out for about 3 hours, and he fell into the ocean (we laughed about that for a while...just wait, this will be relevant later). the next night, we hung out again and he kissed me for a long time. we hung out a couple more times...and kissed for probably 4 or 5 hours total (not kidding). he asked me for my screenname before he left, and we've been keeping in touch ever since. he's been really sweet and conversation has come fairly easily to us up until now. he asked me if i saw what we had as a "fling", which i had originally thought it would be but don't anymore....i told him this and asked him the same thing but he didn't want to answer "because after it's all said and done we won't have anything to talk about anymore". but every night before he leaves he makes a point of telling me how much he misses me. i'm wondering if you think that he really does like me, and if you think it's weird that he won't tell me if it was a fling or not. i want to know what he thinks without asking him upfront, because i know we can't have a long distance relationship. thank you bunches (link)
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Perhaps that also what he's afraid of... having a long distance relationship.
To me it sounds like that he likes you but he's not quiet sure of where he should take things. IT sounds like he's in his comfort zone.
Or.. he doesn't want to have a relationship with you and that's why he doesn't want to answer your question.
I think that you should ask him upfront, just remember though, are you ready to commit to a long distance relationship and will you be willing to commit to it 100% if he says he wants to??
Things might be great and all to start off with but after a while, who's to say that things might get difficult? You never know how your feelings will change once you realise you can't see him everyday or you can't kiss or cuddle him or just simply hang out?
You really need to think things through before you mention anything to him.
On the other hand, it is nice to have that someone there that you can go home and talk to and be comfortable with.
So maybe just clear a few things up with him before you go ahead.
Good luck :)
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