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SO theres this great guy who i really like (14/f). Hes amazing and I've liked him forever but my friend has this thing for him and he kinda had a thing for her and they went out for a while. He made out with her and she was his first. Well i really like him and i think i might have a chance. Now heres the difficult part. Theres this great guy who i think of as an amazing friend that i never want to lose as a friend. He comforts me when im scared (hes a big guy and beats up any kid that is mean to me) and i love him. LIKE A BROTHER. nothing more. So he likes me, and i found this out from people. Now i cant even talk to him! I'm too afraid and i don't want him to like me but i don't want to hurt him! So should i tell him i know? or just let him get over me? OR WHAT?! ah i want to try to move on with guy one but guy two is too important and i don't want guy 1 to get over me. what should i do? thanks for reading
Oh dear..you are between a rock and a hard place huh?! Ok lets start with guy 2 (the friend). If he is truly your friend and you don't want to hurt him, you need to be honest with him. If he hasn't acted towards you like he wants to be more than friends, then I don't think that there is need to bring it up. However...you need to stop trying to avoid him. Is this a guy that you can talk to about anything normally? Maybe mention that you kind of like a guy (then atleast you can scope his reaction). If nothing else, ask him for a 'guys point of view' on how to approach a guy. This way he can 1)take the hint that you like someone else and 2)you are allowing him to be a part of this relationship proving to him that nothing will change with yours and his friendship.
I wish you the best of luck girl! If he is truly your friend than he will want you to be happy!
Good luck!
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he told me and i explained to him that. thanks
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