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I'm just your average 24 year old girl as far as looks can see. I know that I seem young, and let's be honest..I am. However, I've been through a lot of things in my life. Things at one point I thought would ruin my life...but guess what =) I'm still here. I've survived it all and now I want to help others do the same! And it wouldn't hurt for me to meet a few more people too!
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Location: Ohio
Age: 24
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I have taken 10 quizzes online to see if I have depression. Each of them said I was depressed.
Most of them said to see a doctor, but i dont want any one to know and my mom will find out if i tell my doctor. And i can't see a therapist because i dont have a way to see one. and i dont want to talk to any one at school because theyll judge me and stuff and i dont want them to know.
What can I do to handle my stress? Because I know I am I've been through a LOT this past year and stuff is still happening and i feel as if i cant handle it anymore.
**What happend this year**
*evicted, then moved (into a small crappy house.)
*step dad in jail
*loss of a very close friend
*lost job(owner moved away..)
*dad moved away (i have 2 "dads" and 2 "step dads"..long story)
*real dad wrote me for the 3rd time
*lost a best friend because of moving situation
*had a love triangle
*best friends betrayed me
*became basicly a full time babysitter for my mother when ever she asks i have to babysit..basicly a (teen) mother to a 1yr.old and a 7yr. old (and the 7yr old my have adhd or add)
*ETC.ETC.
(I cant talk to any one, and i dont have to for yoga or meditation. and i dont feel like crying anymore.)
So any thing to relieve stress?
Thanks in advance!
I keep a journal when I am upset. Not just your average journal though. I write a letter to the best friend that made me mad (just keep it in your journal--no need to deliver it, just get your feelings out on paper), I write letters to my friend Jason (who passed away about 7 years ago), I write to the one I love but refuse to tell, etc. Sometimes I just use it to jot down every feeling going through my head. Give it a shot, you may be surpised.
I know that you don't want to talk to anyone, but I'm wondering if maybe you should atleast think about talking to a counselor. They are not obligated to tell your parents unless they feel you are a physical harm to yourself or others. Atleast think about it. It sounds like you need to get this stuff out!!!
I wish you the best of luck babe! Keep me updated!
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Ill keep you updated. i really like the idea of a journal with letters and what not. thanks for the advice.
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