Member Since: March 6, 2008
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Last Update: October 15, 2008
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My parents are fighting. They are not considering a divorce but one in a while they just go at each other. It's really sad and since i am the oldest i want to do something about it. My little sisters get sad and cry when they fight and i want to help them. What can i do to make them realize what they are doing wrong? They both blame each other for things but truthfully it is always equally both their fault! I really need some good advice. Please don't give me the "talk to them" answer because right know i don't want to start anything else. Please help me. I really want to fix this becuase everytime they fight it bring up all these past things from like 15 years ago! Who cares about those things! Please help me. (sorry if this is long, i just feel very unstable and sad right now). (link)
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I had that growing up. My brother and I staged fake similar fights and they would get this look of "oh, oh" then they would talk in code (which we understood and they said, "they are becoming like us lets stop fighting). I also faked an eating disorder and let the counselor know about it and "let her " figure out that it was b/c of parents fighting, she talked to them. I don't know if you are old enough to have a boyfriend but if you are and have one (even a fake one) ask them for advice on "similar" problems you are having. Staging the fake fights really worked for me. Good Luck
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ok thanks. i might try that if they do it again
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