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16/f


This is kinda long.. I'm 16 and i'm dating a 19 yr old. He has a baby thats 3 and his babys mom pregnant again... Now they live together but he says nothing is going on. And she got pregnant while me and him were broken up. We have been together a year on and off.. And I completely love this boy and i've tried to let him go but its so hard. Within the first month i found out he was dating another girl but they never saw each other so i didnt care and then the first time we broke up he started messing with this girl and hes cheated on me a hundred times with her but now he says they're done for good. but i'm not too sure if i believe him.. this is a mess what do i do.. and if you think i should break up with him please tell me how to get over him and just know that i see him a lot its my brothers best friend

THANKs
Lynzi

Hi,

Right - get him out your life now. He clearly cannot be trusted as far as you could throw him and serial cheaters don't normally change! Based on all the other cheating I think there is no chance he is telling the truth regarding the woman he is living with. There are two children involved in this and it's going to turn into a horrible mess very soon. You have no real ties to this man or this situation so get your self out of it. Sticking around would be like pushing the self destruct button.

As for how to get over it, there is no easy way unfortunately and its something we all have to go through but in two words TIME and FRIENDS.

Good luck... Take care

Chandler
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(Rating: 5) yeah he derinitely is cheating i can tell. yes hes got to go
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