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Member Since: March 6, 2008
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Im a junior in high school and the friend ill be talking to you about is a freshman. I dont know why i should care about her but i really do because were friends. Were into the same stuff in school so i talk to her alot. Shes dating this one guy, and i know him, hes really a nice guy and they seem to really like eachother. But she tells me her parents dont let her see him. I have to admit that breaks my heart. Its innocent love and i think its sweet. I know i really cant do anything so please dont tell me that. Theyre always texting, video chatting, talking on the phone, and meeting up anywhere local they can, its quite sad actually. But they are just so happy together, and it really shows me what love is.I feel bad she cant see him though. Would you have any advice for her? Maybe i could talk to her about it (link)
Spirituality is not affected by forbidden jr. high romance. Emotions are affected. Anger, happiness, sadness, love are emotions and just like we aren't happy or sad all the time these emotions occur intermittently throughout your life. That includes heartbreak. From Jr. High til now, I have lost track of the number of times I have been heartbroken. My spirituality remains intact. I still have faith that someday I will not suffer from heartaches but rather deal with them and move on instead of wallow in them forever. It took me a year to get over my first heartache yet I don't even remember the name of that boy in 8th grade: it could have been Oscar, Oliver, John, Mario, Drew, ... Time heals all, I know its a cliche but its true. Tll her that


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i asked for advice on how i could HELP her ....sorry not make her feel worse




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