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Q: hiiya! there is this girl that i met in august...we have been friends at school all year and i have started to like her(i kinda want to date her) and im sure she likes me back (friends asked)...the only problem is that i am very outgoing and she is kinda shy soo i feel like i would have to initiate everything...u know like kissing, holding hands...watever and im also afraid that she might be too shy to break up with me if she is unhappy...do you think after we start dating she will get used to it and start initiating things or will i always have to do it? she isnt EFFING shy, but you know...enough to have me worried

ooo also i like to smoke sometimes and she dosent (she said she would if she had access tho, but i think she was just trying to be cool or something) do you think it will be a problem?

...any opinions would help :>...

Maybe she will adjust when she gets comfortable being your girlfriend. She is probably just acting shy because she likes you more than you like her! And if the smoking thing is a problem dont do it around her. But hey, you should kick that habit anyways.

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