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I've known this girl for almost 2 years. Last July she moved in, right after breaking up with her ex. It is my fault for starting something before she ended the last. She lived here and then went back to him. Did this for about 8 months now. Well, she has been gone for a month and a half with him. She says she knows she needs to move on. She cares for me and sees herself with me eventually. There has never been a time that we stopped calling or seeing each other. I know she cares. She even told me if we moved away it would make things easier letting go of him. Well, I have given her an ultimatum to call me Friday to discuss what we are going to do. As a girl that doesn't like being told what to do, she didn't respond. But, not this weekend she has called several times a day. I told her if we didn't talk Friday night that we were through and I was moving on. Do I take this as though she wants to work something out, or should I move on? I've tried really hard and sacrificed a lot knowing she isn't ready for what I have to offer yet, but I feel she is worth it.

I think if you think she is worth it wait for her, the thing is if she doesn't like being told what to do if you told her she HAD to call you Friday she is going to push your buttons and see if she can still get you back, don't just ditch her if you want to be with her you are going to have to wait. If you don't want to wait for her tell her..

hope i helped.

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