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my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost two months, and i used to really like him. i had liked him for almost a year and then once we got together (maybe after a month or so) all of my stronger feelings for him just faded away. i was positive that i was in love with him when we were just friends, but now i can barely stand him at times. it seems like i can't even flirt with other boys and that sometimes bothers me. i feel like i was waiting for just so long and then once i finally got it, i wasn't into it anymore. this has really been bothing me because i don't know if i should break up with him or just wait and see. i'm his first "official" girlfriend and i'm afraid i'll crush him if i break up with him. please help me!!! what should i do??

Just because he hasnt had a girlfriend before does not mean you should spare him a break up, its your happiness hun, maybe the fact that you wanted him for so long it became your gaol, and once you reached it it doesnt seem as appealing. I say if you dont like him, its time to break up, but if there is a still a chance, talk to him and give him a little bit longer. It sounds like you want to be free again, go for what you think you need

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