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im going to make the long story short.
me and my BF broke up. and now he's acting real immature, he keeps talking about me, people keep comming up to me telling me about what he said about me and why we broke up, and calling me a bi*** and a ho, and im getting real irritated, it's like he WANTS me to get mad. the reason we broke up is because i cheated. and i was being honest and told him. then told him that it would be a good idea if we broke up, rather than me cheating over and over again. and now he's acting this way. and it's like "what the hell is your problem?"
but that day, i was on the phone with my friend and he decided to call my ex, but i didnt think it was a good idea, because we was just going to end up aurguing and yelling. and we did. which continued for about 45 mintues straight. then after that we decided to talk to eachother like mature people. and a few hours later he was like, "its okay im not even mad nomore" then im thinkin okay its squashed he cool. now i get to school, and he gossiping like crazy! but now, to this day he's been buggin all the time, and i dont kno what to do! i also noticed he cant even keep my name out of his mouth. and everything that he says about me, he NEEEVER said this to my face. alwayz behind my back or something. and this boy who likes me i told him what happend and he said that if i want him to beat his a** then tell him. i thought that was real sweet. but told him i had to think about it. he said he wont say my name or anything about me, he said wen he see him on the street, he'll jus come up to him, and hit him so they would fight. but i think it might turn out bad because he(my ex) MIGHT for some reason get the idea that i sent him out to fight my ex, and then my ex will get one of hiis friends whom is a gurl to fight ME, and i dont want that to happen. omg, what am i going to do?

oh wow, this boy is more like a girl. he sounds so immature. first of all, hes just a big bowl of drama. if he keeps talking shit, let him. he definately wants you to get mad, hes only doing this to get under your skin because of your break up. act like nothinggg is even wrong and that your not even irratated, even if you are. dont tell anyone that might talk to him that its making you mad, because thats just giving him more enjoyment.

if people ever come up and say oh he was talking so much crap about you, just laugh and be like hes pathetic, he cant even get over me. act like he doesnt even matter, because when he acts so immature he shouldnt matter.

the only reason hes doing this is to get a reaction out of you, once you stop caring he will too.

it is really sweet that the new kid you like wants to fight him for you, i say let him! i mean if he wasnt being totally immature, i would say no because violence doesnt usually solve anything. if he assumes that you sent him out to do it, just be like uh no im not that immature, he felt bad for me and wanted to beat you up on his own. and if he does send a girl to fight you, which is totally pathetic on his part, dont fight her if you cant. just make sure your with your friends all the time so she cant come after you. i mean if you want to avoid the whole fighting thing, it wouldnt be such a bad idea. because he may use it against you, but you never know. you do what you want, but i hope i helped a little bit :D

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