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Hi, I am Jennifer
I am Korean- Japanese and proud.
I am a clingy person, so I need people who don't mind cling people.
I try very hard not to be judgemental.
I suck at waking up.
I have a two second attention span.
I laugh at the most corniest jokes and make them myself.
I have a lot of Jennifer moments. You have been warned.
I love being tan, so please get that suntan lotion away from me. :)
I can make a party animal look like a party pooper. :p
So, yeah, I'm just your average kind of girl... with a more than needed bit of craving for chocolate maybe? Yup... ♥

advice

so when i was in 6th grade going into 7th i did something really stupid.

it resulted in me loosing all my friends.

EVERYONE and i mean EVERYONE found out about it...

i am now 16 and it still hounts me.

like people sitll bring it up

what i did was not murder or naything against the law. just really emabrresing. when anyone says it to me like "u the girl who..." i cry ont he spot.

what can i do? its been like 4 years already and no one forgets it!!! like i cant go anywehre without someone knowing about me.

im scraed to go for a guy bc they wont want me bc of that..

OMG, I know 100% what you're talking about! I think if you want everyone else to let go of the past, you should first. I think the way you cry every time you're reminded of the situation fuels people's memories. Like no one's letting go of it because you cry everytime. If you just say, "Yeah, I know I was so stupid," and just act like you don't even care anymore, I don't think anyone would really have much to say about it.

You're 16. Get over it yourself, and everyone else will too. People think it's funny when someone is upset over their embarrassing moments, so they constantly remind you for the hell of it. I know it sounds wrong but I know.

And if people still remind you even after you like "whatever" continue acting like you just could care less. Don't try to talk back going, "Yeah, well you have no life remembering that about me," or go, "Oh, my God, can you guys just forget it already?" Because if you do, no one would stop.

Maybe, even though it sounds stupid, you should remind them. Like everytime the topic comes up, you go, "Hey, remember that thing in 6th grade? So funny!" So people would think you're proud of it and eventually get tired of it. Whenever someone says an embarrassing moment, you should say, "Yeah, but nothing beats MY moment in 6th grade. Don't even!" If you mention it over and over as much as you can, people might even start going, "Okay, shut up! We all know you did that, stop saying it all the time!" Seriously, it works if you do it right!

It really depends on the situation but I'm sure you wouldn't want to share it. Can I know what was so bad? Maybe it's better adding additional information to this?

xxxx
-Jenni Choi ♥

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(Rating: 5) heyy ur advice is amazing jenni!!!!
ya sure ill tell u the emabressing thing my sn is sasa9821

im me and say ur jenni and ill tell u. im warning u its bad...hahh
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