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I'm Erin and I am 18 years old, I turn 19 in May. In the past year, I've moved over eleven times, I have experienced all of the lows life has to offer, and I have given my advice to many people I have come accross. I helped them in the past, so why can't I help you?

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(f/16)im straight. i like guys, but penis grosses me out. and theres this girl, i dont kno how i feel about her. am i idolising her, obsesing or just in love? shes bi. has a long distance bf she doesnt care about. and me and her are really good friends. we cuddle. but i still beilive im stright. also my sis is a les so maybe im just thinking this way cuz iv been around her way of living. i dont like vaginas or boobs are any bodyparts. i dont care whats down the persons pants. what should i think?? -Sighned Loveless

Being curious doen't mean you are bisexual, it just means you are curious. A LOT of women get like this about other women, we sometimes find ourselves attached to other women, this doesn't mean we're in love with them. Have you thought about how she makes you feel when you first see her and how it makes you feel if she touchs you (non sexually, just friendly.

Think about these things, we all get unsure some times, that doesn't mean you're one thing or the other. If you're curious, you might get in a situation where you try something, maybe try to kiss her etc, if you like it, then go with it, if you don't then you know.

Anyway, there is nothing wrong with being bisexual, it's all about being comfortable with yourself, don't be afraid to find what makes you happy.

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(Rating: 5) thanks. everything i look at reminds me of her. she also has a crush on my sis, and she is always depressed cuz she has no chance with my sis.
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