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I'm Erin and I am 18 years old, I turn 19 in May. In the past year, I've moved over eleven times, I have experienced all of the lows life has to offer, and I have given my advice to many people I have come accross. I helped them in the past, so why can't I help you?

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So i was with this guy for a year and a half and i lost my virginity to him and i fell in love. But we broke up last summer and he hates me because he heard that I cheated on him but i really didnt. He wont talk to me or even listen to his best friend when he tells him that I didnt cheat on him. It has been like 6 months and I have even had a boyfriend since then but I am not over him, he was my first everything. I see him at school and my heart literally stops. What do I do? How to I either get over him or get back with him?

It's always hard getting over someone, it can take a while to get over them too. He isn't listening to his friend, who is telling him that you didn't cheat. He is probably still hurt about it all, being cheated on (in his mind, even though it didn't happen) would hurt. Maybe try again in a little while. If you REALLY want to be with him then I suggest you try to talk to him, even if you write a letter and give it to him, there's a chance he'll read it, this way he won't have to deal with the humiliation of a face to face confrontation and it might make it easier for him to approach you later on. All you can do is say you're sorry and hope he feels the same way. If you still love him like you used to. Go for it and give it all you have and I wish you all the best.

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(Rating: 5) I already tried the letter thing..i have tried everything lol. He talks about me to one of my friends and he just tells her when he sees me outside of school. I saw him at this party but i was really wasted and i guess we had like a 15 minute convo..but neither one of us remember what was said....idk what to do anymore...but thanks!
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