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My name is Ashley ♥

I've been around for 16 years and it will be 17 on November 13th ♥

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I will not make this a long, drawn out story, but will say that my ex and I dated on/off for 8 months. We broke up Feb 07, but we often run into each other around town. He has asked me to get back together several times, but I'm so afraid that the same things that will happen that led to us breaking up. He randomly texts or calls me just saying "I want you back". All last summer I dated a guy and I thought things were great. We broke up just before school started and now I find out that things weren't what they seemed at all. He was using me and talking to "his first love" the whole four months we were together. Deep down I knew that I was just going through the motions of dating this guy in the summer. I still had feelings for my 1st bf. When he heard I was single, he called me and we tried to go out again, but it didn't work. I stayed single until Jan 08 and now I go out with a guy who is okay, but I'm starting to have mixed feelings about him. He yells at me all of the time and anytime I get in trouble with my parents he tells me it is obviously because I am extremely stupid. It really hurts when he talks to me like this, but other times we get along. He tells me that he will never break up with me, if I don't want to go out with him it is up to me to break up with him. Well, my first bf has been texting and calling me again for about 2 weeks now. He tells me he will do anything to get me back. We have the same lunch block and he just sits there and stares and smiles at me. Even though I know we don't stand a chance of making things work, I still love him and I want him back. I know it is wrong to talk/text him behind my current bf's back. I even kissed him last week. I want to move on, but I keep getting pulled back by old thoughts and feelings. What should I do? I think I'm going to break up with my current bf because I know it's not fair to stay with him when I have feelings for someone else.

IF you are still very much in love with your ex like you say you are, I believe you two should work things out. The relationship you are in now is obviously not making you happy. You should talk with your ex and all the things that made you guys break up, you should try to work them out. If that doesn't work, you should move on, the relationship really wouldn't work and you should find someone else to occupy your time with.

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