E-mail: crazychild271@aim.com
Gender: Female
Member Since: March 28, 2007
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Last Update: July 14, 2008
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I've been with my bf for almost 2 years, and he makes me sooo happy. I lost my virginity to him, and he's my first love. I knew his previous girlfriend really well and she told me every detail about their relationship. They never had sex but they did other things... if you know what i mean... She was his first love, and i was the one who comforted him when they split up. But now we're together and i still get upset when i think about him with her. I know its natural to be like that with your bfs ex, but i cant help but cry when i think about him being in love with her, and although he says he doesnt still think about her i know he does.
Is anyone else going through this? or do you know any ways i can try to get her out of my head. It doesnt affect our relationship, but when i'm on my own it plays on my mind...
Thank You in Advance xx (link)
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i'm kind of in a similar situation. i've been dating my boyfriend for about a year now, and he's in college but i'm still in high school. his first serious girlfriend goes to my school, and so i know that he never sees her anymore, but i still do.
him and i were best friends before we were dating, and we were best friends while he dated this other girl. i remember one night on AIM he told me he thought he loved this girl, and i didn't really care at the time since we were just friends. however, now that we're dating i sometimes still think about him saying that and it makes me really upset. i'm kind of jealous of this girl for being his first serious relationship, but i've been thinking about it different recently. since your boyfriend is now dating you and loves you a lot, you can look at it in the positive note of "well, since he had this experience with another girl, i know that since he's been with me for so long that he means it very sincerely with me". like, he knows that he really IS in love with you, since he's had feelings for another girl. i hate it when people have been dating for like 1 month and think they're so in love, when really it's not love. idk if any of that made much sense, but now that he knows what love really is, he must want the real thing, and you're the real thing for him.
hope that helps a little and that you're not alone :)
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Wow thats pretty much the exact same situation i'm in... Thank you so much, its so good to hear from someone in the same situation. You really helped me thank you.x
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