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Hi, I am Alison. Well I live in New York. I love helping people out and giving advice out to people. Fashion is my thing, so if you need any advice on that don't be afraid to ask = ]. I love getting messages for advice so feel free to ask me anything. I'm up to great oppurtunities in life. Ummm there isn't that much more to know about me!
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ok so my exboyfriend (we're still friends) and my bff wont stop fighting. they just dont like each other. my bff always hits him and makes rude remarks on how dark he is...so of course being a normal guy he has to defend his ego...so he says something rude back...and it never stops ! i've already talked to both of them and my bff wont agree to stop and my ex said that he has to say something back. i cant go anywhere with both of them at the same time. i want to be able to go out somewhere with both of them acting like civilized people.
Do you know why your bff keeps saying rude remarks. Ask her. There mite be a reason and then when you figure that out, you figure out what to do next. Tell them if they don't get along when your around, then your not going to hang out with both of them if it gets that. If you don't want to do this than seperate them. Go to the mall with your bff on friday and then saturday go to the mall with your ex. You mite just have to do something like this if it gets bad. Some people just do not get along. Tell your bff that its really hurting you that shes doing this to you and making you so stressed over crap like this. Maybe she'll listen and stop. If you need anymore advice email me!
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(Rating: 5) thank you so much !! ill be sure to do that =D