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Hi im Cherry Coke, I know that I am not perfect but I hope my advice will help!!
My favorite music is pretty much alternitive rock I love it. My favorite bands are Panic at the disco, Fall out boy, My Chemical Romance ,Paramore, Tokio hotel, 3 days grace, AFI and Papa roach etc
Im in Fastpitch Softball and am a Swimmer..
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Gender: Female
Member Since: March 14, 2008
Answers: 37
Last Update: June 5, 2008
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I really do need to have any help from anybody willing to answer, anything will do.

A few years ago, i left my old school to go onto Secondary school. Now, at my old school, i had lots of friends and i was really, really happy and nothing was wrong. But when i changed schools, my social life just...collapsed. I've just been finding myself on my own and I guess it was from that point onwards that i began to talk to myself, creating realties in my head and situations and i would act them out (literally), speaking to people who weren't there and i would respond when they replied or asked or even spoke. I'd only recently began to notice this and it's scared me, i mean really. I don't know how to stop and try and erase this 'world' which has formed in my head. It only happened when i am alone.

What's even worse is that i've forgotten how to socilise with my peers and I've wanted to sit with them at luch time and dinner (I board at school), but i can't.

So basically, my question is: how can i get my life back together and have the social life i used to have? (link)
well my advice for you is to get out of your comfort zone and talk to someone you dont even no. Start just by asking somone a question or somthing basic but give the person some space so they dont think your a creepy stalker. GO SIT AT A RANDOM TABLE WITH RANDOM PEOPLE BUT ASK before you sit there so your not rude bring up subjects at your school. After talking to alot of people i think that will help you from talking to yourself and get a therpist if you can to help.


Rating: 5
That's what i've been told multiple times, so if an advice columnist is telling me this, then it's what i should do. Thanks and sorry for not getting back to you sooner.




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