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Q: Hey Everyone,
alright, so me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 2 months, not very long I know. But we liked each other wayyyyy before then, for about 3 months, but we couldn't do anything about it because we were both seeing other people. But, he didn't cheat on his girlfriend and i didn't cheat on my boyfriend no matter how bad we wanted too. anyways.. he can drive.. so almost every Saturday we go bowling, sometimes we leave early and go to beach access. He told me his is a "virgin" and he's very honest about everything he says, so I'm pretty sure thats true. He wants to do more,[phone sex,fingering,dry hump, whatever] he says I'm to "shy" but actually I'm not shy at all.

my question's are..
-how can i overcome my shy-ness or whatever?!?

14/f
thanks bunches
summer ;)
He should not be saying that because you are too shy he doesn't want to go further. His only reason or excuse not to do anything like that with you should be if you are not ready to. If he really cares about you, he will wait until you are. So if you are not ready, do not let him pressure you or feel bad about it. It is your body, your choice.

thanks. he told me when i was ready... we talked about it yesterday, he said that when I'm ready he'll go for it. so.. thanks :]

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