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does a real boyfriend ask you to suck their dik i dont think so because if they really love you they wouldnt ask you no question like that help me please?

Oral sex for boys is simply a sexual desire, just the same as girls get :). So indeed a guy might ask you to do that - even if he loves you. You might say with love, it's even more alright for him to ask you to do that because you two have a connection that means you're close enough to ask you such personal questions :) it's nothing to worry about if he asks you to unelss he said it rudely, in an offensive way (as in kiss my ass! or some such).

If you didn't want to and said no, however, he'd have to respect your decision. I would only go so far as to doubt his love if he persists after you have declined his offer, or if he goes in moods or becomes rude. If you comply and he ever asks for it again, don't ever do it with doubt okay hun? If there's even a bit of doubt tell him you don't want to and why, because he's been asking too much and its making you feel uncomfortable and coudl you take a break?

So no. Just because he asked doesn't mean he doesn't love you. But if he asked and you said no and he reacted badly, there's an issue. he's bound to be a bit :/ if you decline, but as long as he RESPECTS the decision and understands to leave off, then everything's good :)

Hope I helped
(from someone whose been in a very similar situation) :)

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