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Hi, everyone! My name's Rae. I love painting, reading, sleeping, museums, and I work at Aerie. I'll be attending college very soon, and I'm engaged to the most amazing person I have ever met in my entire life. Life is going so well and hopefully my advice will make your life just as good, :).

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Um, Okay. So me and this guy have been talking on the computer for about 2 years, and we go to the same school, same grade, SAME ENLIGSH/HISTORY class. And we've never ever ever talked to eachother ever. What are somethings I can say? I pretty much know him pretty well, and I think he likes me, and I like him too. But I can't like, officially like him, untill we talk in person, yeah? And he is really shy around me, so that makes me shy around him. What do I do? How can I keep a conversation going! Help.

Since you guys are both shy, one of you has to step up! If you guys can keep up a conversation online, I'm sure you can keep one in person. I know this is going to sound pretty obvious, but just go up to him and say "hi"! Just be like,"Hey, haha, this is gonna sound so weird but I think it's time to start talking in real life!". Being able to joke around will make him more at ease and you too! I know that you're shy and it'll probably be hard to go up to someone so bluntly, but trust me, sometimes you just need to jump right in there! But, if you think just going up to him out of the blue is weird, the next time you guys have a group/partner project in class, ask him to join/be your partner! You guys can talk about classwork and then slowly start getting into social stuff! Hope I helped!

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